COUPLES COUNSELLING
Although it seems that life should be lived happily ever after as the songs and stories we hear tell us, sometimes we need the help of a trained specialist to help us navigate the twists and turns of misunderstanding that can happen between two people.
Often the misunderstanding can totally destroy the trust between people, it can rupture what was a romantic start, to quickly descend into a day to day challenge being in the same house at the same time together. This is usually the best place to start looking deeper into what the underlying causes are. Most people bring unconscious hurts and limiting beliefs to their union.
People don’t realise that there are 3 stages to a long term relationship. Each plays a role in helping each other gain further clarity about healing their own wounds from either childhoods or wounds from past relationships.
Those stages are:
- Romantic stage where all is seen to be perfect at first
- Warts and all stage where the undealt with past hurts or lack of development might play out between them
- True Love where if the two engage in owning their part to the dynamic, they stand the chance to begin the relationship again with the healing and wisdom gained about themselves and each other.
Delaine has an in-depth view of how to help couples find the best solutions for them.. She’ll support each to be ready for change in order to recreate a better trust or level of communication going forward.