Many of us feel amazing when a new relationship starts, but when that lovely infatuated feeling slowly ebbs away, through sometimes the odd misunderstanding or conflict, we begin to get that familiar old feeling return. How many of us have a string of broken relationships behind us or are in confusion as to why our relationships don’t work?
Relationship Coach, Delaine Jones would always say most relationships can be saved. All that’s needed is willingness for each person to look outside his or her fixed views that the other is the problem. Both people unconsciously bring to a new relationship, a hidden or undisclosed set of attitudes, beliefs and sometimes unresolved issues. When again in a new and intimate relationship, these unforeseeable patterns seem to find their way to the surface, into an all too familiar pattern of arguing that can often lead to violent or grieved outcomes.
If you want to learn how to prevent a toxic ending to your relationship, then be open to another way of seeing how to do it differently. Delaine can help you see what you can’t, and in just 2-3 hour-long sessions, a couple is so much more aware of their hidden dynamics, and can gain the skills to change that. And if you have to end your relationship, better to learn ways to leave on a note of peace rather than conflict, which we can often take to our graves…